Hysterectomy Questions. Did you lose your drive?

I am 27. I had a hysterectomy over a year ago,and I have lost my drive. I have been on medication for the past year, but I am allergic to most of them. So I have tried many of them. My Dr. Just put me on the hormone spray. My husband does not seem to understand or care. He gets mad when I push him away. Honestly, I am never in the mood. He gets down right yelling mad, and than storms off and leaves. He was there when the Dr. Explained what was going to happen to my body, and he for some reason can not accept it. He is 13 yr older than me. I have had enough of the ual comments and the constant pushing of that he does. What do I do?? I told him this morning, that maybe he needs to find someone else, because this is the way I am until they can figure out the right medication for it. He is impatient and does not seem to care, and I am at my wits end. Any advice?? I have explained it to him 20 different ways from sunday, and he doesn't understand. Has anyone had any luck with natural hormones?? Thank you so much for you help!!