How long does it take police to come out to an incident?

As a Law Evforcement Officer I have a sworn duty to respond to all complaints, yours is obviously not only a valid complaint but critical, this mans behaviour according to what you have said is proven to be hostile and physical. Your complaint is that of harment and a report should be done and warrants signed for his arrest 2 counts one on behalf of each of your children as thier mother you have the right to file a complaint because minors cannot do so for themselves, if you do not then he may continue his tirade until he snaps. Yes, complain, complain and keep complaining and when you call this time ask for the shift supervisor. Stand up for whats right get this hotheaded bloke back before the judge and give him more time to cool off. As to responce time it should be resonable, but sometimes things do get hectic, but someone should have called intermitttenly to tell you that it would be a few minutes, but should have came last night no matter what time. call now, and give them the times you called too someone was not doing their job.. so sorry.